All you ever wanted to know about flirting but were afraid to ask...
Flirting is a great and grand game of high risks and stakes. If you're a master at the art, you'll never have a dull moment because contrary to popular belief, flirting can take place between ANYONE. There's just a few things you have to know about the past-time, and from there, all you'll need is refinement of skill to achieve your own signature technique.
EYE-CONTACT: This is very important when you're flirting. It shows sincerity on your part, or at least achieves the veneer of sincerity as perceived by the other party. Also, a lot can be expressed through your eyes and facial expressions, and it is imperative that you thus notice expression and BE noticed in order to respectively analyse and relay feelings.
SMILE: Please do practice this in front of a mirror first. Ensure it looks genuine, and that the smile reaches your eyes too, otherwise people will be able to tell that you're fake-smiling, and a good flirt never lets on. Always maintain a slight smile on your face when you're talking to your intended target. Remember to laugh when appropriate.
BODY CONTACT: Yes, you do need body contact when you're flirting. But I'm not talking massive groping sessions - that's not flirting, that's a full frontal assault. Flirting is subtler than that. You lightly touch the other party on the arm or the knee when making a point or as a form of greeting. I reiterate. LIGHTLY touch. Do not allow your hand to linger longer than necessary. You are a flirt, not a dirty lecher.
WHEN SPEAKING: Always be gentle. Flirts are extremely charming because they know how to use words as the medium of unspoken thoughts. You tease, you compliment, you wittily banter, you weedle. It is essential that you are fluent in your chosen language.
BEHAVIOUR: Words are never enough. Flirt encompasses behaviour too. Body language - always have your body tilted towards your target. Always be relaxed. Flirting should seem like it's natural, not forced. When your target talks, listen carefully and be prepared with either something intelligent or funny in reply.
Okay. I guess that's it for today because I am truly beat... I actually had this whole thing planned in mind, but I can't recall most of it now... Will have to do a little thinking and then update this entry. Meanwhiles, enjoy?
